Thursday August 14th, 2008
Dearest Parents and Family Members,
Here I am back again, with a whole day lapsed between when I promised I would write and Thursday morning. I feel so badly that I have ‘fallen down’ on the Blog job but it is because I ‘stood up’ for your kids!!! On Tuesday morning after I wrote you, I had the mental picture of coming back after a great day with the kids and writing to you while they did barn chores & before the camping trip….That was not to be and here goes the tale of weather….
On Tuesday morning, the kids were so eager to ride and try out their riding groups. As you may remember, the staff had really worked hard on getting everyone on the right horse—not too big, not too, too fast, too slow. This was the day to see if the changes and riding group placements had been accurate. We senior most people went around to the groups to check everyone out. With one or two more switches, the kids were all good to go. We sure do encourage them over and over again to let us know if the group is too easy or too hard….They really do feel part of the process.
So, after a good ride under their belt, we got planning for the afternoon activities despite a ‘possible thunder showers’ weather report. I had promised the kids from last session that we were going to have a pony camping trip….With the weather never letting up, I had not been able to come through on that promise. So, this time I felt I could not have been gone for the best two days while I was at the wedding and then not come through with my promises for this session….However, even if it had been sunny, it would have been sodden underfoot at the camping trip and the rushing river would have been too deep to cross with the horses who were going to come with us. In short, it would have been really unpleasant. So, I came up with the bright idea of a camping trip at my house, a Pony Farm version of a gigantic slumber party….They were thrilled and so excited, much to my delight.
So, we split the groups in half by rooms and the littler kids came on Tuesday night and the bigger kids on Wednesday night. So, as I was feeling good about this exchange for a woods camping trip, I went about the rest of my day.
On Tuesday afternoon before the camping trip, the kids had their camp Portraits taken. These are pictures of each girl with her horse or pony. They will be available for you to view them on Saturday and purchase them is you so choose. Many of our families have pictures of their girls each year they have come to camp. It is really a fun momento but we do stress that you do not have to buy them!!! While the kids were taking turns doing that, I got two miniature horses and two smaller ponies harnessed up and ready to go driving with little carts and carriages. I dearly love driving and am the main one who runs that activity. Driving can be darn dangerous if you are harnessed up right or hooked properly to the carriage. Having driven all my life, I like to be the safety checker to get it done right and keep it safe. I dearly love driving, maybe even more than riding, as it is so sociable! The kids all love it too.
The other option was for the kids to do “Slip and Slide”. With the weather having been sooo horrible, we have not done a mandatory Camp Swim Test. We just felt it was cruel to make them swim in freezing water. So, this is another ‘wet’ activity that can happen in lieu of actually swimming. What they do is take a huge tarp and I mean huge…and spread it out on the front lawn of the lodge which has a small slope to it. They then ‘grease’ it with shampoo so it slides really easily. Then, the hose is applied and vola, a huge hit on the farm….simple fun is the best kind! So, they ran and jumped and slid their hearts out in singles, pairs and trios…it was a big hit and they did not freeze to death luckily!
So picture this, everything is all set up, the harnesses on, the tarp readied and the photographer and assist with camera in hand….the kids poised…and guess what…more rain and some distant rumblings of thunder….I thought I really might shoot myself!!! It is sooo hard to feel like you are disappointing the kids but it is even harder to have to switch up activities and reorganize at the drop of a hat…60 plus people and 60 plus horses has a lot of moving parts!
But, we persevered and drove in the rain, the pictures got taken between rain squalls and the kids adored the driving, despite being all wet….Whew, I thought we are going to get through the afternoon without thunder and lightening…Not five minutes later I looked up at the sky and there was the biggest, blackest and most ominous cloud I had ever seen rolling in over Pony Farm….I don’t mind rain or thunder rumbles, but I surely do mind lightening and thunder and harsh rain pelting down on us….So, in we all hurried, having had plenty of fun doing as much slipping, sliding and driving and posing as we could squeeze into the moment…
Everyone got to the barn safely and we unharnessed and fed the horses. I thought well this storm too shall pass and I will continue on with my plan for blogging you. Little did I know the real boomers that were to come. We had to gather all the kids out of the barn and bring them to the lodge because the thunder and lightening was truly crashing down on our heads. It was a frightening storm. I felt I needed to be with the kids and keep them peaceful and thinking of other things. Also, I worried I might fry my computer. Thus….I “stood up for your kids” while I “let you down”…I think it was the right choice and I bet you do too…
So, with barn chores nearly done and the storm receeding, off we trooped with Rooms 1 though 5 for our big excursion to my house. I had told them that it used to be the Stage Coach stop between Boston and Montreal. On the way down I told them how the horses would rumble in and stop by my front door. Then, the horses would get quickly switched to fresh horses while the people got something to drink and went to the ‘necessary room’. They were so excited to come in the actual Stagecoach entrance laden down with their sleeping bags, PJs, sweatshirt and bathing suit….We immediately built a fire in my great big fireplace, with lots of helping hands….We cooked hot dogs, veggie dogs, with a few peanut butter and jelly sandwiches on the side, of course. We had cucumbers out of my garden…a proud garden mother am I…ate chips, apples, carrots and lots & lots of ‘dogs’ roasted over the open fire on sticks we had picked. The kids were such fun…not one cross word, one butt in front of the line to get the food and no one got poked with the cooking sticks….Pretty great average.
Then, we divided into 4 groups and went out to play with the farm animals…One gang went to swim the ducks; a second to play with the bunnies and guinea pigs in my sunroom; a third to play with the new baby chicks; and a fourth to jump the goats, miniature horses and donkey (well, try to jump the donkey…they didn’t get ‘stubborn like a mule’ out of no where!). I have to tell you that it is a most delightful sight to see these kids simply and purely and abundantly loving these animals. They just really enjoy being with them whether they are sitting there gently stroking a bunny or tenderly holding a baby chick in their hand or gleefully running with a mini as they both fly over a jump. My grass in my front yard will never look manicured and perfect…but I sure would rather see these kids gleefully running and jumping and playing with the animals and each other than have a spotless lawn!
After that, I decided to bend the rules just this once and let them have an evening swim with the light on in the pool. So, armed with the baby goat on my lap and three staff people helping watch, they had a blast….They looked like a bunch of young seals cavorting in the water. It was really fun and a great way to get their hands clean for S’mores…What is a camping trip without S’mores! So, they bundled quickly into their PJ’s and we reused our sticks to cook countless S’mores. Man, can those kids pack away the chocolate….For both groups of kids, we ate 3 bags of marshmallows, 6 packages of Graham Crackers and 24 bars of chocolate…much to my pleasure no one threw up in my house….
So, with the candles burning brightly, it was time for story telling…I am very opposed to ghost stories as it seems stupid to have kids in the dark, in a strange place and away from family …and then tell the scariest stories we can think of to tell….Not happening on this lady’s watch. But, stories I did tell…They were so eager to hear about how we got this horse and what was the history of that horse and what was the bloodies time at the farm with a horse or how did this one die…so, we got our share of tales but not one ghost appeared to scare little ones. It was so funny as they begged for more I could also see kids silently dropping into dream land. Pretty soon only two kids were awake and we all decided to call it a night. It had surely been a huge success compared to camping out on the wet, cold ground in the trees next to a swollen stream….Here’s to lovely old houses with great stories to tell.
Wednesday finally dawned beautiful. Everyone was really jubilant about seeing the sun. Like milk, it does a body good and the mold and muck begin to disappear. The girls actually got a full lesson in rings where the mud puddles were not 3” deep. All the groups were great. Two more groups went on a trail ride to make sure they would be ready and comfortable for the All Day Ride which is just about to happen today…but more on that in a minute.
The kids had also been excited about seeing two of our newest horses driving. So, while they rode in the morning and had lunch, I gathered a team of some of our year around staff that do the carriage driving to hook up Willie and Alyanna…Willie is a Cassion horse that was given to us from the Army. He had been one of a six horse hitch who had driven President Regan to his final resting place in Arlington Cemetery . He had also done many military parades….So, without a “hitch”, we hitched him up!!! We have recently gotten a new carriage and he sure made a beautiful picture. By next summer, he can give families rides on the Parent visiting day. We also hooked up our beautiful Arabian which is on long time loan to us…She was a dream to drive and had obviously done it a lot….So, we are thrilled to have a total of 15 driving horses and ponies….It sure makes for a fun selection for driving activities at camp. I love to drive with the kids and remember one of my favorite little kids from the past saying this…
“You know Boo, if more people traveled like this there would be way less wars!” I fear, lisp and all, that she was right….but that’s for another discussion!
The afternoon stayed bright and sunny…for a fabulous change! The girls got to practice their “Specialties” which will be part of the riding demonstration that we will do for you on the Closing Day. Their choices are the High Jump called the Puissance, Vaulting which is gymnastics on the moving horse, Bareback Riding and maybe a little jumping, Courses and Lines of jumps, and Cones Driving with the smaller driving ponies. They had all signed up for their specialty event….Everyone got their first choice, although I was amazed that 13 children chose driving over the riding options….much to my delight, of course…So, off we all went, smiling in the sun.
The afternoon went off without a hitch….no lightening….We hardly knew what to do with a good day but it was all smiles. The horses got fed and snack time happened…and then I gathered up the whole group….I shamelessly bribed them into picking rocks for 15 minutes. In our efforts to ‘green up’ the farm through recycling and rotate pastures, while reducing the number of horses we have during the school year, we asked everyone to help pick rocks in this field that we are reseeding and resting for a year. The kids went at it and we called them “Rock Stars”….We picked three bucket loads of the tractor full of rocks…A job that would have taken the 3 maintenance folks all day and then some was done in 15 minutes. When you put 55 people to a task, its amazing what can happen. The kids were thrilled to be helping their horses and I was even more delighted to have the pasture that you first see when you come to the farm all green again….So, take a look at what your daughters did when you come on Saturday. It is the field on the right side of the road as you drive to the lodge….Yipee…Ice cream sandwiches and popsicles are the treat for this afternoon.
So….last night was Take Two of the Camping Extravaganza….The older girls came this time. I was alittle worried that they might think it was corny to come sleep on my floor instead of real camping…but they came, the very last one of them. What a total blast we had. Because the weather was great, we made our fire in my fire pit and lit torches to see….We played equally heartily with the farm animals after dinner….then had a great swim…everyone went in this time as it was warmer….the goat still got to help supervise and then it was time for S’Mores…They cleaned the cupboard again of every last marshmallow and piece of chocolate….How do they stay so beautifully skinny with the ability to down that much sugar!?!
This time we told stories, again with the goat in my lap, around the fire pit. There really is something magical about fires…It just sooths the soul in a way that TV or computers just do not….They begged for more stories and my voice was getting worn out…finally at 10:15 we all agreed we better hit the sack so we could be well rested for our All Day Ride….I checked that all the Farm Animals were fed and correctly put up for the night and fed my own dogs….by then, there was not a peep…All was quiet on the PF front.
I do want you to know that the kids that were not with me had a great time too. They played a great game in the barn called Personal Scavenger Hunt…This is a game where silly questions or requests to sing or dance a song are given by the staff. The kids then have to run down the aisle of the upstairs barn where we store the hay and slap the table…They then must try to sing their song or give the answer to the question. They adore this game. I however am really getting old because I can’t answer even one question….The only one I do know about is Miley Cyrus….put that is it!!!
So, today, we are off on the All Day Ride…We will ride in several Western Saddles and take saddle bags filled with our yummie lunches…with some added candy to spice up the day! We will ride about 11 miles. This is my favorite all Day Ride and it is one of the highlights of my summer. We will take 21 kids and 5 staff, so it will be a ride of 26 horses. I am leading in my cowboy boots, western saddle, rope and best horse…Yipee…I am going to be pretty stiff tomorrow as I have not ridden very much during camp because they always want to drive!!!
The kids that are either too little to come or chose to stay home are being treated to a big Gymkhana….meaning games on horses….There will be games like the Toilet Paper Game, Rock & Spoon, Sit a Buck, Slurp and Burp….to mention a few. There will also be Gambler’s Choice….one of obstacles for the littler ones and one of jumps for the bigger ones….The harder the obstacle or jump is the higher the points received for successfully doing it….The riders are given 2 or 3 minutes and they get to choose their own line, trying to guess what their horse will or won’t do….The one with the highest points wins…..and everyone has a great time…So, they will surely not be bored….
Tonight, after their Thank YOU Treats from yesterday….and a good dinner, they are going to play Counselor Quest….another all camp favorite (and one that I thankfully don’t have to play after riding all day long!). This is a version of Hide and Seek…the staff are assigned point values depending on their role at camp. The kids then are divided into teams and the teams have to track down and find the staff without letting other teams know any secret locations…Staff plan carefully all week where they think they can best hide not to be seen….The long and short of it is the kids love to find the staff and the staff pride themselves in great hiding places….Everyone loves it…
Tomorrow, we will have our final lesson in the morning and then one more practice for our Specialties in the afternoon….During Rest Hour, they will write their Candlelight Ceremony piece about what their experience here at Pony Farm has meant to them. We will then get started packing and get everyone dressed up for the last night of camp for the 2008 Season….wow, where did the summer go…It just flew by, making the statement of “Time Flies When You Are Having FUN” so true….
After a steak and special Veggie option with Goat cheese non the less, we will have our Candlelight Ceremony with the torches burning, the pool all decorated and the song books prepared….This will be bitter sweet for me and the staff as we have truly loved this summer. What a phenomenal group of kids we have had all summer….It is truly my pleasure and privilege to be a Camp Director ….Little did I know those 37 years ago when I started camp with my two best friends (at 17 no less!) and eight little girls that I would still be doing this!!! Wow, it has been a great ride.
Let me end by just quickly reiterating the plan for Saturday so you will all know the scoop. We ask that you arrive at 9:30AM, armed with a picnic lunch. You kiddos will all be at the barn tacking up with the riding and specialties well organized. We will give you a little Orientation at about 9:45 about where to go and what to see. You are also free to take a few minutes and load up the car while the lodge is not filled with kids. We will have them well packed with their ‘stuff’ on their beds…(I often think this is the biggest feat we accomplish each session!) You can also settle up with Kris is you have any outstanding bills or camp store purchases…The pictures that we took this week will also be available for you to see. If you like them, you pay the photographer directly. We don’t’ let the kids see them ahead so you don’t feel cornered into buying them…but, they are pretty darn beautiful!!!
Then, you can go off to enjoy seeing your daughter ride. I hope and think you will see good progress, despite lousy weather….Following the riding which should end about 11:30 to 12ish…the kids will do the final feeding and come up for lunch. We ask that you pack a picnic for your family. We have done the food in the past and can never guess how much or how little to cook because we did not know how many extra people were coming…so, at the cost of food and our new ‘waste not want not’ policy, we will provide the drinks and several yummie desserts for you….
Following all of that, we will say our fond farewells and “can’t wait to see you next years”!!! I can’t wait to meet the new parents and tell all parents how great their kiddo is….It has been such fun…
I am off to the All Day Ride….Am I not the luckiest person in the world….
Have a super day and see you soon.
Warmly, Boo